Take Time Out

Someone once gave me great advice, however, it took me over 10 years before I listened and took the advice: "Don't be afraid to take time for yourself." Get a babysitter for a couple of hours or trade with a friend on a regular scheduled time (once a week, every other week, etc.). Just keep it scheduled and make yourself do it.

Don't run errands, don't clean your house, don't do anything for someone else. Take the time and do something for yourself. Read, take a walk, wander, pick up a new hobby, lunch with a friend, etc. You don't even have to leave your house if you want; just make sure your family does.

Be selfish for once and only take care of you for a minute. You will find that you actually make a better mom and wife if you do. After your break, you will find yourself rejuvenated and excited to spend time with your family.

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